Apr 202014

Barbara Streisand had it right when she sang the words from Alfie.

“I know there’s something much more/
something even non-believers can believe in”

Every time a religious holiday comes along, people wonder if any of it is true. And, although the vast majority of the world’s population believe in something, even that is to an uneven degree.

Aside from atheists, who deny the existence of a God; agnostics who want proof before they can – versus believers who do – there are various denominations and sects that vary widely among each other: from literalists, to those who believe in the overall picture … not hanging on to every word.

“I dream of such humanties, such insanities… I’m lost like a kid in a maze”  Old Habits Die Hard by Mick Jagger, Dave Stewart

With so many derivations, who is right? Well, you won’t get the answer from me, but I do feel it’s easier to not believe, than to believe. I mean, who can prove you wrong if no one can prove they’re right?

“Old habits die hard/ Old soldiers just fade away … Harder than November rain … Hard enough to feel the pain”      – Old Habits Die Hard by Mick Jagger, Dave Stewart


As someone once said, it comes down to personal belief; it’s a decision not a discussion.
Personally, I can’t believe there’s nothing: that there’s no power greater than our selves.

“If that’s what it’s all about… Momma, if that’s moving up… I’m moving out” Movin’ Out by Billy Joel

I look at a blade of grass and think that no human can make it. Nonetheless, there are so many contradictions: it’s hard for me to believe that I must accept every word that’s written down without the benefit of context.

“But it’s all right now, I learned my lesson well /You see, ya can’t please everyone, so ya got to please yourself” Garden Party by Rick Nelson

So, like a great novel, the true meaning remains unwritten … stirring the soul … which is the basis of all religions.

“But if I really say it, the radio won’t play it/
Unless I lay it between the lines! – I Dig Rock and Roll Music by Peter, Paul and Mary

In that sense, there’s more that unites us than divides us: the spirit of the word rather than the letter of the law. For believers, in the end, none of it really matters, if we don’t practice what we preach: the universal and eternal themes of love, hope, charity, forgiveness, peace and understanding … more than just Nature.

“You’re looking for some peace and love
leader of a big old band/ You wanna save humanity/                                                                                                                                                         But it’s people that you just can’t stand” – I Don’t Wanna Face It by John Lennon

Otherwise you may, as well, believe in nothing at all.

“I believe in love, Alfie/ Without true love we just exist, Alfie”

Fred Parry

www.fredparry.ca April 2014


Apr 112014


I’m honoured to say that The Music In Me book is now available from Chapters book stores and at Indigo.ca – both as an eBook and a paperback.

To order, just enter by author (Fred G. Parry) or title in your search and you’ll find it readily available.

The book represents the best of the Fred Parry (Canada) Blog, www.fredparry.ca, over the past five years … all organized at your finger tips … no ‘hunt and peck’ searching for your favorite stories. Also, included is an easy reference guide (Fred’s Play List) of all the lyrics use in all the stories.

In addition, the book includes several original poems.

So, either for yourself, or as a gift, I hope you’ll find it even easier to get yourself a copy.


Fred G. Parry

Apr 052014

Some people don’t believe in angels. I do.

This is a story of how one entered my life, left it … only to return again, years later. But, this is no Hollywood presentation with soft music and predictable outcomes.

When I first met this woman, she was an austere person: strict and countenancing a matronly manner.  Mercifully, she wasn’t my boss, but everyone witnessed the harm she inflicted on the life of an associate (who later became a close family friend) who worked for her in another department. Seemingly, drunk on the new supervisory power entrusted to her by the company, she looked for problems where none existed.

My friend, who I knew was Christian, kept her beliefs to herself, but for some unknown reason this new supervisor made it her mission to harass her at every turn. Not that my friend stood by passively: she vigorously defended herself on every occasion. My friend didn’t know what to expect next – with facts always secondary to speculation.

Finally, it all came to a head when a serious allegation – representing potential dismissal – was lodged by the supervisor, which later proved to be anything but true. My friend’s faith was tested as never before, but – with senior management’s involvement – this unnecessary vendetta was finally ended.

Yet, miraculously, over the years, the supervisor morphed into a different person: set on atoning for her past mistakes. At one point, the supervisor asked for forgiveness, and like an ‘earth angel’ (a true Mona Lisa), my friend said she had already forgiven her so very long ago.

Mona Lisa by Leonardo da Vinci Wikipedia

Mona Lisa by Leonardo da Vinci Wikipedia

Then something unexpected happened to the supervisor: cancer.

When she came through the usual interventions like radiation and chemotherapy, her cancer went into remission. And, something else … when you looked into her eyes … you could see godliness shining forth from within. A bridge of trust was eventually cemented with mutual respect enjoyed by everyone.

One time, she left me a note, in her beautiful calligraphy, referencing a couple of biblical passages she used whenever she felt the need for safety and security: Romans 8:26-28; Psalm 91.

Our life paths eventually parted and it was 23 years later when I received an email about her passing. Instinctively, I open an old, unused bible – only to have that same, but faded, handwritten note fall out. I hadn’t seen it for all those years.

“Take it or leave it or try to believe it / If you’ve been down too long”                                        Rainy Day People by Gordon Lightfoot   

Many people will write this off as a co-incidence, but how do they explain away several enjoining incidents: the conversion from strangers to friends; receiving that email out of the blue; the re-discovery of her note; and perhaps the greatest question of all … having earned her wings … is the transformed supervisor an angel still reaching out from beyond the past?

Fred Parry

www.fredparry.ca April 2014